My husband decided he wanted to get divorced. He left. After a few months of not making any decisions, I filed and got the process started. I want to keep the house. He is telling me he is going to force me to sell the house so he can get money for grad school. I am under the impression that I can refinance the house in my name, and pay him out the difference in equity after we account for all shared debt. Is this correct? How do you determine what is a shared debt? For example, he is refusing to acknowledge that our solar loan is a shared debt and says he will not take 50% of the responsibility for it. Help, please. I need direction.