I have been paying spousal support for 20yrs. I am 64yrs old, on social security, have health issues and a part time job that pays minimum wage. I rent a small home and with the other expense can not afford the required spousal support of $680.00 a month. I need free advice. My ex is in the process of fling papers  to bring me back to court, for being behind in payment from last Oct 2015.  She has her own business and owns a home in Scottsdale valued at $350,000 plus. I need help to live a reasonable life. Please respond